Reduce Stress by Being Assertive

While teaching thousands of women around the country, I have found most have this in common: We don’t go after what we want. We have a lot of reasons for this but the results are the same—frustration, dissatisfaction, and stress! Let’s talk about little things first....

Conflict Management: Bring Down Defenses

Ideally, we want to put the other person at ease so he or she becomes less defensive. The more defensive she is, the more difficult the conversation will be. Your body language can help you to come across as less of a threat. You need to show that you are open to what...

Get Your Stress Relief ON!

You have a lot of stress coming at you from all angles. Do you find yourself yelling at the other drivers, even if it is just inside your car? Do you get angry when you are in a long line? Do you get upset when a stranger says something rude to you? In other words, do...

Schedule Your Worry

What are you worried about now? Are there particular thoughts that tend to creep into your mind that cause you stress? I’ve spoken to both men and women in all kinds of occupations and at all income levels who have excessive worry in common. In fact, if you are...

Long Live the Beautiful People

Have you ever been jealous of pretty people? I’ll admit I used to be. When I was growing up, I wanted to be pretty. I had no dreams of riches or stardom, just beauty. I remember watching Grease and wanting to look as good as Olivia Newton-John. And after I was...